A Companion wants your attention; an Embracer wants you close. This is usually an easy match: both of you value being together.
Being together and being close go hand in hand. Movie nights, walks, sitting side by side.
Friction comes when one is touch-heavy and attention-light: close on the couch but scrolling.
To love a Companion
Look up from the phone. Being present matters more than being nearby.
To love an Embracer
Sit close, hold hands, lean in. Closeness is their attention.
A picnic with one blanket and no phones.
Sit close, and stay present.
Take the quiz, then invite your partner to see both results side by side.
Start the couples quiz